I am an American citizen. As an American citizen, my life is governed by laws and regulations. I have the right to live my life in anyway that I seek fit, as long as I abide by the laws of this nation. I am free, but with limitations.
Growing up in America, I was presented with the notion that America is synonymous with freedom. As an American I was also confronted with the idea that even I am a symbol of freedom. I guess that all depends on who’s looking. Or what the other factors are in this equation. We’d have to scratch beneath the surface to find the answer. Let’s slide this under the microscope because anything can seem beautiful and tranquil from a distance.
Am I freer than my next door neighbor? Are we really equals like they teach us? The answer is simply, no. Some of us are still not granted the same rights as our neighbors. Sure, we’re all human beings but we are all different from each other and we are still living in a time where our differences are all we are made of. In our country, the land of the free, everyone should know that this only applies to some of us.
As you get older you will make choices and you are guaranteed to be judged on the choices that you make, whether they were good or bad. On the contrary, you will also be confronted with things that you cannot choose, and you will also be judged by them. There is a plethora of traits and characteristics that a person develops that essentially makes them who they are. All in all, they are a person. My government has a responsibility to me. As a citizen of the US and as a human being, my government owes me respect, decency, and must see that I am treated as fairly as any other person in this country.
I have come to find out that only parts of me are protected. Only certain aspects of me are considered equal. Only half of me has rights.
I’m being confronted with that fact that my government sees me as subhuman. It’s a fact, so far. Would you believe me if I told you that there are 2,107,707 prisoners alone in the US that has certain rights that I don’t? It’s true. Murderers, pedophiles, rapists, and every other incarcerated person does. The more I think about it, even some of the most vicious villains of history that are serving life sentences in prison are more human than me, in the sense that they are granted certain rights that I am not.
Yeah - I’m talking about marriage. I have mixed ideas, personally, about marriage altogether. On a whole, refusing to allow same-sex couples to marry is discrimination.
What’s the deal with marriage anyway? Marriage is a package, aside from the ceremonial conception and the concept of national validity of a monogamous relationship, under the pretty wrapping of love and unity comes a few other rights that are granted to married couples. Taxes, medical care, and adoption are just a few wedding gifts given by the state.
When I hear the far-right, anti-gay activists, screaming that this country should protect the sanctity of marriage, I cringe.
Things I have been hearing lately throughout the news -
Homosexuality is an unnatural act and violation of Christian beliefs and is nothing more than a sin against GOD and should never be condoned by our society. - I’m not religious by ANY means, so I look the other way on this type of statement. Jesus, God, Allah, Buddha, whatever makes your life happier, so be it. You have the right to religious freedom. To be honest, I don’t care what your religion is and what beliefs you follow. You are allowed to worship whatever you choose. However, I am in no way affiliated with anybody’s religion and nor will I conform to their beliefs and ideals and succumb to living my life according to their concepts. Might I add there are PLENTY of religious gay people that praise god right next to you every Sunday in church. This isn’t a religious issue; this is a civil rights issue. If gay people are just sinners that do not deserve rights, what about murderers in prison that have the right to marry? Are they not sinners too according to your beliefs?
But marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman in the eyes of god - Maybe it is for you. Everyone has a different perspective on what marriage means to them.
We must protect the sanctity of marriage - Under what pretenses? Should we ban divorce? Drive through weddings in Vegas? Marriage is a right, not a privilege.
Popular vote clearly shows that America is against gays and gay marriages! - CNN demographics again? Just who do they poll anyway? I was never asked to vote and don’t know anybody else who was asked or who has voted. Take a look at our electoral system, even our president isn’t elected based on popular vote. At one point in American history, almost 80% of the people were in favor for slavery. It was also considered a “popular opinion” that interracial marriage was a disgrace to society. Perhaps some of you still feel this way, and that is a true sign of a decaying society. Popular opinion doesn’t make anything right. Who’s to say that anybody’s opinion is right? I think my stance on gay marriage is right which makes yours wrong, but you think yours is right and mine is wrong, so who’s to say who is right? Nobody should be denied basic civil rights based on the grounds of someone else’s personal opinion.
But that is a personal opinion - No, it’s a fact. As a human being and a citizen of the US, I have the right to the pursuit of happiness and I have the right to be treated equally as you.
The argument on gay marriages could go on infinitely. Either way you look at it, there is no way anybody can say that this is not a clear case of oppression and discrimination. Our entire history is littered with people fighting the injustices of our government for equal rights. Have we learned nothing from our ancestors? This is no different. We are all entitled to freedom and civil rights regardless of our gender, religion, race, and sexual preference. To deny someone rights based on who they are in love with is hypocritical and archaic.
If being gay means my life is only partially protected by law, that my life and what choices I make are limited legally, then I am not a citizen. If this country can allow laws to be written and amendments to be adjusted for the sake of ostracizing groups of people simply based on who they DATE, I do not live in a free country. If the government refuses to recognize me as an equal individual and continues to discriminate against me and countless others, for what reasons should I recognize the government? Why should I pay taxes to an oppressive government that won’t even protect me under their laws? If the United States continues to discriminate against its own citizens, going against the very documents that our nation was founded upon, in an effort to clearly define gays and lesbians as an anomaly of this society, why should I feel obligated to do my part as a citizen, if I am not really one?
Everyone should be ashamed that our country, our president, seeks to ban certain individuals basic civil rights solely based on who these individuals fall in love with. Whatever your feelings may be towards gays and lesbians, nobody’s personal opinions should stand in the way of another person’s rights.